“I want to want to be social”
Jamie Martin Jamie Martin

“I want to want to be social”

Sometimes social affiliation desires don’t match our desires to build or maintain connections. Here is how you can increase your desire to join with others…

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Building a Drive for Fun
Jamie Martin Jamie Martin

Building a Drive for Fun

RO DBT uses specific behavioral principles to actually increase the desire and drive to participate in fun social experiences…

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I Can’t
Jamie Martin Jamie Martin

I Can’t

How often when you say “I Can’t” are you truly incapable? I found out for myself….

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It’s Lonely at the Top
Jamie Martin Jamie Martin

It’s Lonely at the Top

The Enigma Predicament in RO-DBT helps us explore the problems around seeing ourselves as different from others..

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Sorry, Not Sorry
Jamie Martin Jamie Martin

Sorry, Not Sorry

Healthy social signals around remorse can be challenging when we feel defensive….

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From Rivals to Friends
Jamie Martin Jamie Martin

From Rivals to Friends

Social comparisons can lead to feeling more like rivals than friends with those we want to be close to..

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